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What Happens to a Marriage When You Retire Abroad (And What if it Breaks?)
People love the fantasy of retiring abroad: two people strolling through narrow streets, coffee cups clinking on a sunlit table, life finally slowing down to the rhythm they always wanted. And yes, some parts of that are real. But the thing no glossy article says â the thing Iâve started thinking about more and more when I talk to couples planning their move to Italy â is that a relocation this big doesnât magically strengthen a marriage. It magnifies it. When you remove the
Dec 10, 20257 min read
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What Nobody Tells you About Growing Old in Italy
Retiring in Italy is more than visas and logistics. This piece explores the deeper truth of aging abroad, what happens when life takes an unexpected turn, and how to build a community that actually holds you when you need it.
Nov 24, 20254 min read
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The Quest for the Perfect Place to Live: A Journey Through Imperfections
There is no perfect country â only different imperfections arranged in new ways. From U.S. burnout to European bureaucracy, hereâs a candid look at what it really means to retire abroad, why politics sting less when you canât vote, and how to decide which flaws youâre willing to live with.
Sep 25, 20254 min read
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The First 90 Days in Italy: A Survival Guide for the Newly Arrived (a.k.a. How Not to Lose Your Mind or Get Deported)
Picture this: your plane wheels screech against the tarmac at Malpensa. The flight attendants are still yelling at everyone to sit the...
Sep 1, 20254 min read
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You Made It to Italy - Now What?
How to apply for the Permesso di Soggiorno, Tessera Sanitaria, set up banking, and get your life started in Italy as an ERV visa holder.
Aug 5, 20255 min read
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Scouting Italy: What to Look for (Beyond the Gelato and Piazza Vibe)
Youâre not just touring. Youâre test-driving your future life. So hereâs what actually matters. Thereâs a seductive rhythm to Italian...
Jun 29, 20257 min read
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What $200k Really Buys You in Italyâs 7% Towns
Thinking of retiring to Italy under the 7% flat tax? Hereâs what $200,000 can actually buy you in walkable small townsâfrom restored homes in Puglia to fixer-uppers in Le Marche. Real listings, real advice, no sugarcoating.
Jun 10, 20255 min read
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Why Cutting State Tax Ties Matters (Even If Youâre Leaving the U.S.)
Think moving abroad means youâre done paying U.S. state taxes? Think again.
If youâre leaving California, New York, or another high-tax state, you need more than a plane ticketâyou need a paper trail that proves youâre gone for good. From surrendering your driverâs license to scrubbing your digital footprint, this guide breaks down how to legally and permanently cut tax ties before you move abroad.
Jun 3, 20257 min read
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How Long It Really Takes to Move to Italy
Everyone wants the fantasy â sell the house, hop a flight, sip espresso on a terrace in Italy. But the reality? Moving abroad takes more than daydreams and a passport. This guide breaks down the real timeline it takes to move to Italy â from financial prep and scouting trips to Roth conversions, visa chaos, and post-arrival bureaucracy. If youâre planning your escape, this is where the real work starts.
May 6, 20256 min read
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đž Bringing Your Pet to Italy: A No-Nonsense Guide for Dog (and Cat) Parents Planning the Big Move
Thinking of bringing your dog or cat to Italy? Donât wing it â the EU pet rules arenât forgiving. This guide walks you through every step: microchips, vet visits, USDA forms, flights, and what happens when you land. Based on real experience (with a 90-pound Bernedoodle in tow), this is the no-fluff, all-facts plan for a smooth relocation â and a happier pet.
Apr 30, 20254 min read
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Why Weâre Leaving the U.S. for Italy: A Familyâs Story of Burnout, Planning, and Purpose
We didnât have a single âweâre moving to Italyâ moment. No dramatic speech. Just a slow unraveling of the American dreamâburnout, layoffs, active shooter drills, and a creeping sense that this system no longer serves us or our kids. So we made a plan. Not an escape, but an intentional departure. This isnât just my dream. Itâs our familyâs next chapterâbuilt together, on purpose.
Apr 18, 20258 min read
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What the F is an Apostille?
If youâre applying for a visa to Italy (or basically doing anything official across borders), youâll run into this mysterious word: apostille. Itâs not a pasta. Itâs not a neighborhood in Florence. Itâs a bureaucratic stamp of approval that tells a foreign government your documents are legit. In this post, I break down what it is, when you need it, and how not to screw it up â because nothing says welcome to Italy like your FBI background check being rejected over a missing s
Apr 17, 20253 min read
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Visa Maze Walkthrough: Decoding Long-Stay Visas for Your Move to Italy
Thinking of retiring or relocating to Italy? Before you start picturing aperitivo hours and rolling hills, youâll need to face Italyâs most stubborn gatekeeper: the visa system. This post breaks down every major long-stay visa optionâfrom the Elective Residency Visa to the brand-new Digital Nomad Visaâwith real talk, real requirements, and zero sugarcoating. If youâve been overwhelmed by consulate websites, expat forums, or conflicting advice, this is the clear, detailed walk
Apr 10, 20257 min read
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Elective Residency Visa (ERV): The Ultimate Document Checklist Before You Say âCiaoâ for Good
Everything you need to know about applying for the Elective Residency Visa (ERV) to Italy. Checklist Included!
Mar 28, 20256 min read
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How to Avoid the Biggest Mistakes People Make When Moving to Italy
How to avoid the biggest mistakes when moving to Italy.
Mar 20, 20254 min read
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How to Prepare for Switching Your Digital Life for an Italian Move
How to keep your digital life going in Italy without glitches.
Mar 18, 20255 min read
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Why Italy, Why Now?
Leaving the U.S. Behind & Embracing a New Future in Italy When I came to the U.S. as a teenager, I believed I was stepping into the...
Mar 17, 20257 min read
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